Discovered who you are helps you recognize others

You are not  Dr. Carl Lightman (a micro-expression expert in Lie To Me) and not even a skillful body language reader. Yet, it doesn’t stop you to understand human behavior. Micro-expression and body language are something that we can see from the outside.  Since, we don’t acquire any of these skills, well, let see it from the “inside”.

We learned about Sociology XD, we learned about Public Relation, Management, Psychology and any subject that gives us some knowledge about human behavior. Are these enough for you to learn about human? Are you qualified to judge them based on these? No…..

We love to watch movies right? Other than enjoying the show, do they teach you anything? Answer is yes…………

Love comics and any other storybooks? Can you learn something from there? Also, the answer is yes………

Sometimes, movies are not just movies and the same goes to comics and storybooks. Never underestimate the power of any of these. They teach us loads of things only IF our eyes are “opened” wide enough to “seek” for the knowledge and our brain are “processing” fast enough to perceive them. They may not serve any educational purpose, unlike our lengthy-words-and hardly-any-graphics textbook. Yet, they do teach us something. Does this sound familiar to you? “Don’t you just watch the movie!” It does sound familiar to me as this is what my father told me whenever I’m watching movies. Next, he will start to lecture me on “Learn from the movies that you watched” XD.

However, these items are not your biggest guru. You are the master of your own. Movies, comics, storybooks, and the above subjects are your references and textbooks, as we the human beings might have different perspectives in viewing things and tend to be overwhelmed by our own emotions.

Whenever we do something or feel something, try to ask yourselves. Why am I doing this? Am I going to like it? How do I feel? and etc. By questioning yourselves, we are indirectly on the position of someone else. The information might not be accurate as humans are unique with 0.1% of genetically different. from one another. However, we must not forget the 99.9% of similarities among each of us. *okay, here comes medical genomic XD. There is a chance they might share the same views with us. The probability goes higher if both of us are of the same “channel”. Let’s not forget our “references and textbooks”, “read” and “understand” them. All these help us a lot. Don’t be mistaken that we re trying to become a Miss  or Mr Perfect here, it just that  all these so called “knowledge” can be our guides to live our lives or even save us from unnecessary troubles. In fact,  no one is PERFECT after all.