Life has never been simple-> Decision-making

Every moment in our lives;

As long as the clock is ticking;

As long as you are breathing;

As long as your mind is working;

We can never run away from making decisions.

It can be something trivial such as “to eat or not to”;

Or something crucial enough to affect your whole life

Making a decision can become a headache when no one but YOU have to do it alone.

Most of the times we are wondering whether we are making a correct decision.

How much we hope that there will be certain guidelines that could help us to make the correct choice;

Or at least someone is there to guide you.

Sometimes headache can turn to migraine when you want to make sure whatever decision you have made will not affect others at the same time.

Sometimes you just hope that you can close your eyes and ears and do whatever YOU THINK is right; simple, isn’t it?

Whatever decision we are trying to make, for sure there will be two options lying in front of us. “To do it or not to”

Each way leads to another; and things can become nasty when there is no turning back.

Does it really matter if we are making the right choice?

There is this Chinese saying, “Kin pou hang pou” that means, just follow whatever that lies in front of you.

Right or wrong is not the main concern here.

The most important thing is how you are going to deal or live with your choice.

Whether or not you can accept the outcome and live with it.

And this depends on how you perceive it.

Some people like me, who occasionally take things TOO seriously i.e Think too much, will tend to feel that “it is the end of my world if I have made the wrong choice”.

Some people are cool enough to accept whatever the outcome is, as if “whether your choice is right or wrong you still have to eat what” ~ got what I mean?

That is, no matter what you do, you still have to continue with your lives;

What done is done and just face it that there is no time machine at this moment to go back to the past.

Why not start to learn how to adapt with it. Even our own cells know how to do it when they are stressed. =P they can do it and why not we.

UNLESS, you chose to end it once and for all and this is the WORST decision that you can make. Never try to end your life when the God still want you to be here.

So, does it really matter if we are making the right decision?

A quote that I found interesting from “Kung Fu Panda”:

Yesterday is a history,

Tomorrow is a mystery,

Therefore, Today is PRESENT --> a gift.