Conservative?
Starting from last year, i have been hearing things like "this couple sharing the same room", "that couple sleep together". Honestly i was shocked upon hearing all those, i would call- gossip and part of me don't even believe it either. later on, more news (no longer gossip LOL) saying that more couples sharing the same rooms and more couples sleep together. These news are getting more and more common and seriously, i don't even bother about it, UNTIL...I heard my "cousin" told me that her high-school-age- younger sister sleep together with HER BOYFRIEND. Well, she never say she did "that" with her boyfriend. Basically, both of them just lying together on the bed hugging each other. anyway, we never know, but of course i hope what her sister was telling is true, since we have been growing up together, so the "bond" is there. i sort of treat them as my younger sisters though.
There are even times that i'm wondering this thing will ever happen to me too? Will i consent? No guilt? Is it a MUST? A culture? Afraid of being dumped if you refuse to do so? come on just lie on the bed will do. Are you sure about that? Of course we have been taught that, we are not bound to follow what other people are doing. Since there are lots of people practicing this doesn't mean that we are ought to follow them, rite? Unless you are very sure on what you are doing.
To me, the girls seem to fall into the unfavorable side. I mean, it is kind of unfair to the girls. i know, they volunteer it. However, if anything bad turns out, the girls tend to be the loser. Not the guys, they don't and wouldn't lose anything, seriously.Taking Edison Chan case for example, obviously the girls are affected the most. I don't know, this is how i feel.
Recently, we have been alerted with news (more to confessions) saying that lots of young teenagers as young as primary school children starts to have sex and the government starts to take things VERY SERIOUSLY from now onwards. Only then, i know that i'm not the only one who couldn't accept with this "2010 trend".
Everything starts with couples sleeping together and when suddenly things get heat up, you WILL do it. Yes, you will. Initially, you will say "argh..it's not going to happen, as long as i say No, what could happen?". Well, how much you are so sure about yourselves? Being emotional is the biggest fear for human. Emotional does not only include the feeling of anger. In my opinion, it covers up lots of thing such as hatred, greediness, craving for food and of course lust. One thing very funny is, human tend to fall into it. An abstract, something that you can't see, touch but only can feel. Once you fall for it , you are no longer yourselves. All your rational thoughts will totally GONE. You will just do whatever you WANT, not something that you think is CORRECT anymore. You don't care about yesterday (past: whatever you have vowed) and tomorrow (future: implications). Only today (present: whatever you are doing) matter you the most. This is how, which i think, many people have made their BIGGEST mistakes or crimes (murder, rob, rape and you name it). Otherwise, there won't be so many news of homicide, rapes and robberies, until recently : promiscuous teens and teens pregnancies.
Only then, you will start to regret and feeling guilty. You even feel that your world is so dark.
So, what do you think?
There are even times that i'm wondering this thing will ever happen to me too? Will i consent? No guilt? Is it a MUST? A culture? Afraid of being dumped if you refuse to do so? come on just lie on the bed will do. Are you sure about that? Of course we have been taught that, we are not bound to follow what other people are doing. Since there are lots of people practicing this doesn't mean that we are ought to follow them, rite? Unless you are very sure on what you are doing.
To me, the girls seem to fall into the unfavorable side. I mean, it is kind of unfair to the girls. i know, they volunteer it. However, if anything bad turns out, the girls tend to be the loser. Not the guys, they don't and wouldn't lose anything, seriously.Taking Edison Chan case for example, obviously the girls are affected the most. I don't know, this is how i feel.
Recently, we have been alerted with news (more to confessions) saying that lots of young teenagers as young as primary school children starts to have sex and the government starts to take things VERY SERIOUSLY from now onwards. Only then, i know that i'm not the only one who couldn't accept with this "2010 trend".
Everything starts with couples sleeping together and when suddenly things get heat up, you WILL do it. Yes, you will. Initially, you will say "argh..it's not going to happen, as long as i say No, what could happen?". Well, how much you are so sure about yourselves? Being emotional is the biggest fear for human. Emotional does not only include the feeling of anger. In my opinion, it covers up lots of thing such as hatred, greediness, craving for food and of course lust. One thing very funny is, human tend to fall into it. An abstract, something that you can't see, touch but only can feel. Once you fall for it , you are no longer yourselves. All your rational thoughts will totally GONE. You will just do whatever you WANT, not something that you think is CORRECT anymore. You don't care about yesterday (past: whatever you have vowed) and tomorrow (future: implications). Only today (present: whatever you are doing) matter you the most. This is how, which i think, many people have made their BIGGEST mistakes or crimes (murder, rob, rape and you name it). Otherwise, there won't be so many news of homicide, rapes and robberies, until recently : promiscuous teens and teens pregnancies.
Only then, you will start to regret and feeling guilty. You even feel that your world is so dark.
So, what do you think?
Agree here! With both hands raising up! XDXD
ReplyDeleteLOL~ They are still young haha *As if I am so old like that :P*
Haiz, now a days, children are like that. They thought it is FUN! Yet, they didn't notice that they need to take up the responsibilities by themself after the FUN! When something goes wrong, they will only realise that is wrong. And who is going to be blame after that? Their own parents pulak. All those youngsters today being pampered too much by their parents edi. You see, now a days, 5 year-old kid carrying handphone walking around in the shopping mall with their parents. See how lucky they are.
yalo...dunno wat to say. seriously, i really think the parent shud be blamed. they pampered their children TOO MUCH!! haiz..for my cousin's case, her mom once told her that if she got bf, she dun mind at all just inform her will do. MANATAU, once her sis told her mom, her mom was outrage!! saying things lk, at this age shouldn't date and all those typical nagging that we often hear. eventually, her daughter need to cover for wat she has said and ended up cover up lies upon lies!! wah..i reli think her parent's prob lor. now oni her sis knw abt it . >< the only thing i can do is to tell her sis to keep an eye on her sis. HAIZ...
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