Just a random thought ~ think in depth ie be considerate

This is what we always TRYING SO HARD to remind ourselves:

"Do not compare yourself with others"

However, how many often that we think in this way?

"Do not expect other people to be the same with you"

Confused? Blur? Clueless? XD

There are many times that we heard something like this:

"Weird, why is this happening to you?" , "easy only what", "huh, like this you also can't afford?", why is this and why is that and bla..bla..bla..

If you ever utter these sentences frequently, it's time for you (okay, me also XD) to really consider what are the next words that you are going to say in the future.

Yes, all these are not vulgar words, yet, they are mean and hurtful depending on whom is the listener.

A person who always says something like this is rather shallow. To be precise, you are not considerate, or in a harsh form "talk without brain"

You always perceive that :

Whatever you have, other people are expected to have them too, otherwise they are just weird or abnormal because they didn't practice the same way as you are.

The only reason you can say such a thing is, you didn't consider all the factors, characteristics or properties that a person owned. What they have and what they don't have.

You always expect people to be the same with you.

You have a wonderful life. No worries, carefree and you get whatever you want.

You are a happy go lucky person; nothing can trigger your mood.

You can do this and you can do that.

This is so perfect, the world is so beautiful!!

BUT, are you sure people around you are sharing the same thing?

To know this, you really have to understand a person really well AND use what you understood to talk in a way that it should be.

That means, you have to be considerate. Try to be in that person's position. Feel it. Imagine it. How will you feel if you were them?

"OMG! This is so hard. Why I have to do this? Raking my brain just to make he/she happy? What about me? Sorry, I live for myself not for others. "

If you ever think in this way, HURRAY!!! Congratulation! YOU ARE SHALLOW!!

There is not only "me" in this world. There is "you" as well.

Open up your mind and think before you speak rather than saying something foolish.

in other words, "be smart a bit lar" XDXD